This is what you must never do during a process of reconciliation:
- Let them see how desperate you are.
- Waste their precious time with insignificant things.
- Become annoying with repetitive questions like “Do you want me back?”
- Drive them crazy with questions regarding their feelings.
- Be in their face all the time when what they actually need is space.
- Calling your ex several times a day.
If you want your ex loved one to come back to you, don’t ever call them every hour and don’t fill their inbox with your texts. Nobody likes to feel harassed, especially by the person who tries to win them back.
Don’t develop an obsession for your ex. There are so many things out there waiting for you. Focus on a certain activity that feeds your soul and let your ex be. You will end up realizing that when you finally meet them you will have much more subjects of conversation.
Becoming a desperate and needy person is the worst turn off.
